Kids Going to College: A Survival Guide for Parents

Kids Going to College: A Survival Guide for Parents

Kids Going to College: A Survival Guide for Parents

It’s a big day! Your child is going to college. Unlike the many times you’ve watched them board the bus or dropped them off in front of elementary school or at summer camp, this time they won’t be coming home until Thanksgiving.

The day you drop them off at college is as big as the day you brought them home from the hospital. Emotions of pride, hope, and anxiety all rush in.

It's a heartbreaking thought to consider. So as a parent, how do you cope with this huge moment?

Take a deep breath, relax, and read the following advice for parents of college students.

Gain Perspective

It's a huge time in the lives of parents, but don’t forget, it’s a big deal for your college kid too. They're getting their first taste of real independence. Don’t get offended if their feelings are different from yours. They’ll miss you soon enough, but for now, their minds are preoccupied with their new surroundings and new friends.

As an adult, you’ve experienced leaving home for the first time. Take a moment to remember what that was like. It’s bittersweet. Don’t judge your child's reactions or your own feelings too harshly.

Avoid the Long Goodbye

If the tears start to flow the day you drop them off, that's OK, but it's important not to stay too long in the moment. Tell your child you love them, you trust them, you're there for them, then it's time to go.

Leave Them Alone

Let them enjoy their freedom. There are so many things to know about college, so it's OK to offer advice about college when they ask for it, but try not to bother them too much with voice messages, texts, and emails. If you have kids at home, focus on getting them ready for school instead.

Be Supportive

As a parent, it’s seldom about you anyway, so this shouldn’t be much different. Continue that trend and be supportive of your child who is off at school. Let your child know that they are going to do great, but that they can call you anytime for any reason. Kids do much better with their parents supporting them, not just financially, but emotionally.

Enjoy the Freedom

Going off to school is about freedom, excitement, experiencing new things, and meeting new people. But that doesn’t have to be just for the kids. It’s also time for you to reclaim the time and space that was once devoted to your child.

You may look forward to the extra space and privacy, more food in the fridge the chance to watch tv shows you like, but there will be the empty nest to contend with. Use this as an opportunity to thrive!

Going to College is a Great Experience

Going to college is an awesome experience and a great opportunity for kids, even if parents suffer the effects of empty nest syndrome. By taking advantage of their new freedom and keeping things in perspective, many parents adjust in time and continue to provide emotional support for their kids.

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Kids Going to College: A Survival Guide for Parents